last week I took a trip with a friend. we fucked on a crowded beach inside a tent and probably traumatized some kids in the process. but this isn’t about that.
if you’ve never been in the presence of a woman who’s so aroused by you that she gets soaked just thinking about you, you probably won’t get it.
if you’ve never watched a woman constantly shift in her seat bc she’s trying to keep you from noticing that your mere presence alone is enough to make her so wet with anticipation that it’s literally dripping down her legs, it won’t make sense to you.
if you’ve never made her nervous to be around you because she might look shy but doesn’t want you to know how much actually she wants to jump you like a trampoline, this will sound crazy.
if you’ve never fucked a woman until she taps out because she literally cannot take it or orgasm anymore… i don’t know if you’ll relate.
if you have… then you understand when I say that one of the single greatest feelings as a man is that moment right after you’re done when you stand up and just look at her laying there half-dazed in her blissful euphoria with that goofy look on her face, completely exhausted & drenched in sweat from work she didn’t really do… and all she wants to do is just go to sleep. I like to use these moments to go outside and smoke while staring out stoically at the horizon, contemplating man shit like carburetors & power tools. if she genuinely has energy to pillow-talk or go downstairs & cook you an entire meal… you might not be doing it right. she should be more tired than you by the end of it. orgasming really takes a lot out, especially when you consider the electrolytes & fluids lost. it’s called “sleeping together” for a reason. i.e. - we were together, now she’s asleep.
it’s not about pleasing her. it’s about making her yours- even if it’s only for the moment. reveling in the act of dominating her. desiring her so much that the only way to satiate your own appetite is to ravish her for hours on end. make no mistake, women want to be lusted after. they just prefer it be by someone they’re actually attracted to.
is her orgasm the most important thing? not really. does it help with keeping her in your frame? absolutely.
in terms of baby making - while there's a general idea that the female orgasm is basically useless, recent studies have speculated that the primary purpose of it is to better help facilitate reproduction. makes sense when you think about it. men produce semen. semen contains sperm. sperm swims. what kind of environment do you need in order to swim? a suuuper wet one. in other words, the wetter she is, the better your boys swim. meaning more fluids for the mobility of your sperm (if you're considering actually making a baby & not just vehemently enjoying practicing like the rest of us.)
that said… focusing too much on trying to make her orgasm usually has the opposite effect, as it’s putting too much pressure on her. pressure tends to be anti-seductive for women. the more relaxed they are, the more enjoyable the experience. you don’t have to ask her “did you finish?” Jesus and 3 other white people living next door to you will know she’s done. so the goal here isn’t to say “you need to pay more attention to her needs” as much as it is to say “if you focus on simply enjoying the act of making her yours physically (by dominating her) moreso than on either of you finishing, you’ll fuck better.” in other words - make her orgasm about you, and you’ll be fine.
especially if you can make her cum without cumming yourself. that tends to drive women crazy and make them want to work harder to satisfy you. don’t hold your nut hostage, but learn to be independent of the outcome & you’ll get more of the outcomes you want.
besides… good dick is one of main ways to keep a woman coming back to you regardless of your status, income, looks, or whatever metrics you want to use. considering most women never meet that high-status guy they claim to want but are still alpha-widowed to some extent… how else would it be possible if those dudes have nothing to offer but dick? simple - because some dude fucked her brains out & it completely changed her life.
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